Hello folks, today I am going to talk about love d:

You asked, what is love? What is infatuation? How do I know what I'm feeling? My simple answer would be, you'll just know.You may say I'm wrong, but who is to judge what I say? There is no definition of love, and this is my take on it. This is what I feel.

Let's start with infatuation. There's many different ways to define this word. Have you ever had a time where you come across a specific person so much, and then your friends mention something about him/her once, and you end up thinking about that person a lot? Then you begin to believe that you like that person because you're thinking about him/her so much. Infatuation scenario number 1.

Scenario number 2 is when things about that person just calls out to you. Be it looks, personality, intelligence?, wealth, ...whatever that you're into. Sometimes, you don't even know why you're into that person. If you think logically, you can easily figure out that if the individual didn't have that trait, you probably wouldn't like them. Sometimes, you see something in that person that you lack. You see the other person as someone who would complete you.

Numero 3; When you're down in the dumps, and you're so weak, you're prone to being taken advantage of. Any living thing that comes at you will do. Low indeed. When you're just looking for someone to cheer you up, someone to give you that (temporary) happiness you've been looking for and you find someone who will do just that because you're completely giving off the "I need you aura." Rare case to most, because I know you're all strong people.

There are probably more, but that's all I can think of right now.

Don't get me wrong though. I never said that infatuation can't turn into love. Most of my infatuation examples can be part of love. There are so many ways that a relationship between a stranger, or a friend can develop. I do believe in love at first sight. Some people just have that aura around them. The need to be taken care of, or the need to have someone to take care of. Love to me is actually quite simple to define. Someone who can add that extra touch of joy in my heart; someone who I can't live without; someone who nothing can pull me away from; someone who understands and respects; you're the one I'm looking for.

I would like to believe that I have loved, and fallen out of it. But to you reading it, you may say I didn't give a shit. No one knows the truth but me. And the truth is, I once had my direction, but lost it. At this moment, I'm not ready to love and until I find myself, I will remain happy with the people, and things that I've got. But who is to say infatuation doesn't exist ;D

I'm different. I'm ever changing. I'd like to believe that for every tomorrow is another me, for better or for worse.